“True originality consists not in a new manner but in a new vision.” ~Edith Wharton
I count Downton Abbey my one marital costume drama triumph.
I’m not sure how I convinced my English hubby to watch the first episode. It doesn’t matter, because it’ll never work again.
But I thank Julian Fellowes’ superb writing for keeping it going. I had one glorious weekend, seven hours of silk and corsets, with the hubby.
In Downton Abbey, Elizabeth McGovern plays Cora Crawley, Lady Grantham, an American heiress who saves the ancestral home from bankruptcy. In reality, over a hundred American heiresses married into the English peerage during that era. They became veritable historical preservation league.
Late-blooming writer Edith Wharton (1862-1937) knew many of those real-life Cora Crawleys. If she’d been richer or prettier, she might have been one of them.
The Fairy Child
Edith Newbold Jones was born on January 24, 1862 in New York City ( Tuesday is her 150th birthday). Some say her great-aunts were the Joneses, as in “keeping up with the Joneses.”
Although her peers produced the real Cora Crawleys, Edith’s family went abroad in 1866 to live on the cheap. A string of European governesses taught her French, Italian, and German. She taught herself to read and began a life-long affair with books, the only love that remained faithful to her.
Edith’s writing aspirations surfaced early. She published a short story at age 15. But her parents belittled her achievements. In an unfinished autobiography, she wrote that they regarded her with fear, “like some pale predestined child who disappears at night to dance with ‘the little people’.”
They needed her to marry up the social ladder, or at least not plummet from it.
Edward “Teddy” Wharton was 12 years older, a friend of her brother. He had a magnificent trust fund. They wed when Edith was practically a spinster of 23 and lived the high life for a while — yearly trips abroad, a Georgian manse even Lady Grantham would envy.
But as in Downton Abbey, it’s no cliche. “Money doesn’t buy happiness.”
“Life is always a tightrope or a feather bed. Give me the tightrope.” ~Edith Wharton
Teddy was an alcoholic obsessed with barely-legal girls. Modern biographers think he also suffered from bipolar disorder. Divorce was out of the question. For the first twelve years of her marriage, Edith suffered from debilitating ill health.
Then something happened none of her biographers adequately explain. At age 35, twenty years after her first publication, Edith started writing again. That book, The Decoration of Houses, covered home decor for the genteel and prosperous, exhorting them to rethink their claustrophobic drawing rooms and abolish the “wobbly velvet-covered tables littered in geegaws.” She probably decided that things wouldn’t get better, so she might as well get on with it.

She published at least a book a year after that — travelogues, home decor, short story collections, plus two two of her best-known novels, The House of Mirth (1905) and Ethan Frome (1911). The advances and royalties made her rich in her own right.
In 1907, Edith learned Teddy was siphoning off her money to support his mistress. She left him and moved to Paris. In 1913, she divorced him. Finally, in her 50s, she could write without the insanity.
But World War I intervened. Edith became a passionate supporter of the Allies. She raised funds and helped create hostels for French and Belgian refugees. In 1916, she received a French Legion of Honour knighthood for her volunteer work.
In 1920, at age 59, Edith published The Age of Innocence, a deft and devastating account of the machinations conducted in the heavy drawing rooms of her decor books.
She won the Pulitzer for it — the first woman to do so.
An Awkward Creature
Not surprisingly, Edith’s novels describe people trapped by their circumstances, unable to break free of suffocating social conventions.
English novelist Anita Brookner, writing in The Telegraph, basically calls her the anti-Austen. Readers “habituated to the formula established by Jane Austen, with a tightly constructed happy ending” will find her difficult, even disturbing. Brookner concludes:
Born to great wealth, owner of beautiful houses, she was in essence that awkward creature, a born writer.

And once she started writing she never stopped. She died of a stroke at age 75, the pages of her unfinished book, The Buccaneers, scattered upon the floor. Forty years of creativity and a life well-lived, despite parental disapproval, a bad marriage and war.
If you’re unfamiliar with Edith’s work, start with any one of these stunningly-adapted costume dramas: The Age of Innocence with Daniel Day-Lewis (directed by Scorsese), The House of Mirth with Gillian Anderson (X-Files’ Scully proving her acting mettle), Ethan Frome with Liam Neeson, or The Buccaneers (finished by another writer after Edith’s death) with Mira Sorvino. The latter is based on Edith’s circle of friends.
What Later Bloomers Can Learn From Edith Wharton
Whatever may be keeping you from your passion — in the grand scheme of things, it’s temporary.
Sources
- New York Times, January 19, 2012: For Edith Wharton’s Birthday, Hail Ultimate Social Climbers.
- New York Times Slideshow: Edith Wharton Turns 150.
- The New Yorker: The Changeling by John Updike.

I'm Debra Eve, proud late bloomer & possessor of many passions.
{ 20 comments… read them below or add one }
This lady had some spunk…..thankyou for sharing Debra, fascinating as usual.
be good to yourself
David
David Stevens recently posted..21 more Self Discovery Questions for the 40+’s……enriching your Mid Life Journey in 2012
It’s easy to envy her wealth, but she had as many obstacles to overcome as anyone. Thanks, David!
Debra, this post is right up my alley! I love Edith Wharton and everyone of her books! And then there’s Downton Abbey. My husband and I love, love, love that series! The writing is unbelievable with conflict in every scene. And the actors and costumes, they’re gorgeous! I do not know who the costume designer is but she is a genius. Well there’s another show on tonight! Happiness!
Karen McFarland recently posted..Row80: Kicking and Screaming!
Thanks, Karen! Don’t hate me but…my in-laws sent the entire Downton Abbey Season 2 from London for Christmas. I’ve seen it all
What a well-researched, fabulous post, Debra! Just fascinating, and presented in an engaging and accessible way. I love your stuff.
K.B. Owen recently posted..ROW80 check in – Round 1, Week 3
Thanks, Kathy! That’s a HUGE compliment coming from you, since I know this is your area.
Another wonderful post, Debra! Thank you. (I must mull over the Brookner comment “…that awkward creature, the born writer.”)
Pat O’Dea Rosen recently posted..Anticipation
I loved that quote, Pat. It made me regard Edith as more than a rich girl who wanted for nothing, so of course she could write. I think all writers are awkward creatures to a certain extent. It’s how we can see and say what others miss. Thanks for dropping by!
I really love reading about later bloomers–always inspiring to me! Thanks Debra!
coleen patrick recently posted..The Young Know Everything
Thank you, Coleen. That’s what I’m trying to do!
Fascinating post Debra. I love this series. i’m a late bloomer and it’s nice to know I”m not alone.
Louise Behiel recently posted..Physical Abuse of Children
So glad you like it, Louise! Yup, we’re a big group.
Hi Debra!
Love this post! I’m a big Downton Abbey fan too. I just posted about it on my blog.
I’ve seen all of the films based on Wharton’s works. The Buccaneers was my favorite among them.
I had no idea she’d won a Pulitzer.
The NYT had an article celebrating her 150th birthday. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/01/20/books/heiresses-of-whartons-era-in-fashion-on-her-150th-birthday.html
Hey Jennifer, thanks for stopping by. I love just about everything about that era, too. Not seen The Buccaneers yet, but my BFF and costume drama buddy says it’s gorgeous.
I’m one of those who is familiar with the name, but not the works. You can bet that’s gonna change. Thank you for this piece, an inspiration to this late bloomer.
Thanks, Denice! Wharton’s books are wonderful, but she’s been adapted spectacularly too, which is true for so few authors.
What a great premise for a blog. I had no idea Edith Wharton fell under the “late blooming” category, but she is definite proof that once you find what you’re supposed to be doing, there are no limits on achievement. I love your line “Forty years of creativity and a life well-lived, despite parental disapproval, a bad marriage and war.” Definitely good motivation to get cracking!
Sarah Baughman recently posted..Why I Miss My Car
Thanks, Sarah! Glad you enjoyed it.
Hello Debra. So thrilled to have discovered your blog and what a treat this post is. Edith Wharton is a true inspiration, especially since I am also a later bloomer (born 1962, 100 years, 2 months after Edith). My husband and I are also stumbled onto “Downtown Abbey” and are enjoying it thoroughly. I loved “The Age of Innocence” too.
Carol Apple recently posted..Dinesh D’Souza book delivers horse kick of traditional Christianity
Hi Carol, thank you for stopping by! So glad you’re enjoying the blog. There’s something about that whole era I love. The clothing, the architecture…everything.
{ 1 trackback }